Book Review: Simply Calligraphy by Judy Detrick

Recently I’ve found a new obsession…as if I didn’t have enough already!  It’s the beautiful art of hand lettering.  There are so many talented artists out there who make beautiful word art.  As a person who’s always loved pens, pencils and writing in general, I am intrigued.  When I saw the book Simply Calligraphy by Judy Detrick, I knew I had to have it!

The first thing I must say about this book is that it really is simple, but in the best way possible.  The cover features only the title on a solid turquoise-colored background, decorated with gold dots.  The simple theme is continued inside with neat, concise chapters and not a lot of frills.  The instructions are clear and easy to understand.  She gives advice about what kind of pen to buy to start out, which I found very helpful.  There is also info about how to use your new-found skills.  This book is a great jumping-off point for beginners.  I can’t wait to buy my pen and get started!

Happy reading (and writing!)

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.     

2016 Must-Read: Having a Martha Home the Mary Way by Sarah Mae

Am I the only person who’s always on the lookout for faster, simpler ways to keep my house clean?  When I look at magazines, blogs and Pinterest I see so many beautiful, well-organized homes, and I always wonder how they live in a house like that.  Where do they sit and do craft projects?  Where do the kids play?  Do they actually cook meals in that pristine kitchen?  And then comes the inevitable feelings of failure and inadequacy because, no matter how hard I try, my house will never look like that.  When I read Having a Martha Home the Mary Way, I found out that I am not alone.  There are others out there who feel that their homemaking skills are less-than-perfect to say the least.  And then there is the Mary life.  Don’t most of us wish that we could spend more time at the feet of the Saviour, listening to His words and soaking up His presence?  And more than that, don’t we wish for a space that feels comfortable, homey and welcoming to friends and family?

  In this book, Sarah Mae has presented thoughtful, clear ways to keep your home clean, without spending 90% of your time with a scrub brush in hand.  She also gives practical advice for finding the time and energy to spend in prayer and Bible study that so many of us sacrifice for various reasons every day.  She has broken her plan down into thirty-one days.  Every day has a simple devotion with a life-lesson, followed by a Mary challenge with a scripture reading and a Martha challenge.  By following along every day you’ll be able to find the balance between the hard-working Martha, and the friend-visiting Mary. 

Mary challenges will help you to see yourself in a new light, more like He sees you.  Challenge yourself to give up your expectations of what you think your life and home should be.  We all fall short so many times of the goals we give ourselves.  Mary will challenge you to forgive yourself when you fail, and get up again tomorrow ready to give it another try.  And always remember that you are you and no one else.  We don’t all approach life the same way, so our homemaking routines are different, too.  There are lessons about kindness and diligence, and so many other traits that we need, not only as wives and mothers, but as Christians.  There is encouragement for those days when you just feel tired, run-down and discouraged, and advice for when you find yourself getting distracted. 

Then comes the Martha challenge.  These challenges are broken down by rooms, where you tackle a few jobs in one room every day until it’s clean.  The tasks are very manageable, and will have you feeling better about your homekeeping skills in no time!  As you complete each job and each room, you will be able to develop a routine for yourself to keep the mess from piling up and overwhelming you again. 

If you already keep your home pristine and have a perfect cleaning routine, yay for you!  But I would still recommend this book.  The spiritual aspects and journaling prompts alone make it worth reading.  The cleaning plan would also be great to follow if you are performing your spring cleaning for the year. 

What makes it a must-read:

The most important thing that I took away from this book is the realization that things don’t have to be perfect.  My worth isn’t based on my abilities as a housewife, or the cleanliness of my home.  While these things are important, they aren’t the most important.  There will be days that I fail, or don’t measure up to the standards that I’ve set for myself, but I can’t give up!  I have a Heavenly Father who loves me whether my floor is clean, or not.  One of my favorite quotes from the book is, “It is practical to clean, and it is necessary, but my identity has nothing to do with it…It is purely in Christ.  He tells me who I am, and loves me where I am.” 

If you are a woman struggling to be the homemaker you think you should be, but keep falling short, I recommend this book to you.  Your home (and my home!) may never win awards for being the cleanest in the neighborhood, but if it’s a place where our family, friends and most importantly, our Saviour feel comfortable and at home, that’s really all that matters!

Happy reading…and cleaning!

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.  Having a Martha Home the Mary Way is available now.   

2016 Must-Read: Spark Joy by Marie Kondo

I haven’t conducted a survey to see what most people resolve to do in their New Year’s resolutions, but mine usually involve some sort of cleaning, decluttering or organizing.  I recently read The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo.  I have to say that I resisted reading it at first.  The thought that tidying could really change your life seems far-fetched.  But I saw several others who read it and literally raved about it, so I caved.  First, you should know what this book is not.  If you want someone to tell you how to store everything you’ve got in various boxes or totes, this is not the book for you.  If you’re looking for designer storage options, look elsewhere.  To follow Marie’s “KonMari” method of tidying, you have to get brutal with yourself and your belongings.  You will literally touch and hold every item that you own, and decide if it sparks joy in you.  If it does, keep it.  If it doesn’t, it has to go.  Now, I’ve read a lot of articles about decluttering and organizing, but this method is totally new to me—but I liked it!  The KonMari method is broken down into very specific categories, and they must be completed in a certain order.  I won’t tell you what it is, because you really need to buy the book!

I have only competed the first category, which included my closet and dresser so far, but it truly makes me feel happy to just look at my clothes.  However, as much as I loved The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, I was left with many questions at the end.  What kind of kitchen equipment should I keep?  How do I store my food?  How exactly do I fold these shirts?  What is best way to store my towels?  So when I saw that Marie has written a companion volume, I knew I had to have it! 

Spark Joy will answer any questions you may be left with after reading the first book.  It expands on the original principles of the KonMari method, but gives even more information, including illustrations about folding everything from sweatshirts to underwear.  There are tips about storing your makeup, toilet paper, kitchen appliances and everything in between.  It’s like a nerd’s guide to tidying!

I also feel like Marie fills in a lot of the blanks about what to do when you’re done discarding and your space feels a little sparse and empty.  She gives tips for decorating your new, tidier spaces using the things that you love.  She also tells you that it’s okay to keep some things that may not seem practical, but do bring you joy, giving tips for how to use those things you just don’t want to part with as part of your décor.  While her tastes won’t match everyone’s, I found a lot of her tips to be helpful.

Why it’s a must-read:

You may think, like I did, that tidying can’t truly be life-changing, but after reading these two books, I believe that it just might be.  Since reading about people who have tidied their homes and found happiness in a simpler life, I can really see how much clutter and truly un-joyful things I have in my home.  I think that keeping only those things you truly love and chucking the rest can be life-changing.

I think everyone can benefit from reading this book and becoming motivated to clear their clutter.  I think a lot of people want to tidy their homes and lives, a but really just don’t know where to start.  Marie will not only tell you how to start, but she’ll give a lot of tips and practical advice along the way.  It’s a great way to start not only a new year, but a new life chapter.  Life-Changing Magic and Spark Joy will only cost you a little over $20 when purchased on Amazon, so I highly recommend that you buy both of them.  If you’re truly dedicated to living a simpler, less-cluttered life, Marie can show you the way!

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own and a favorable review was not required.  Spark Joy is on sale now

2016 Must Read: I Was Blind (Dating) But Now I See by Stephanie Rische

I have to admit it.  Even though I am now very happily married, the message of Stephanie Rische’s book I Was Blind (Dating) But Now I See, really appealed to me.  There was a time when I was single, and I desperately wanted to be married.  I experienced a lot of the things that Ms. Rische talks about, from well-meaning friends, to family jokes that stung more than a little.  What I appreciated most about this book was that it is not a way to change yourself so a man will love you.  I guess those books have their place, but sometimes a single girl needs something more.  I also appreciated the fact that this author doesn’t tell single women that they are somehow wrong to desire a man in their lives.  So many times I’ve read and heard it said that single people should enjoy the “season” they are in now, without wishing for more.  I even read a book by one husband/wife team that indicated you aren’t ready for marriage until you’ve learned to enjoy life as a single person.  These sentiments sound good on the surface, but they just aren’t true.  I believe that God puts the desire for companionship in every person, and we aren’t wrong to wish and pray for a mate.  Ms. Rische wasn’t shy about admitting that she desired a husband, prayed for a husband, and even doubted God along the journey.  Her story is sometimes funny, sometimes painful and always heartfelt. 

This is not a book about finding a husband.  It’s not a guide that tells girls what they can do to snag a man.  It’s a series of lessons about coming to the realization that God knows what He’s doing all the time, and His grace is always sufficient.  It’s about coming to terms with disappointments in life, and moving past them.  It’s raw and honest.  So many times I could feel Stephanie’s pain, and I remember times in my life when my own heart cried, “This isn’t fair!”  But I found in my life, the same as Ms. Rische, that God is faithful in all things.

I wish that I had I Was Blind (Dating) But Now I See during my single years.  It is not only great lessons about living as a single person in a world full of married people, but it is full of encouragement for people in all walks of life.  It includes encouraging passages from the Bible, but also from someone who’s been there. It might seem odd to include this book in my “2016 Must Read” series, and you might think that if you’re married, or not looking to get married, this book isn’t for you.  But I think this book is applicable for anyone who is in a season of waiting, wishing and maybe even doubting.  Maybe you won’t relate to the stories, but the lessons remain true.  If we’re honest, I think we’d all admit that we’ve had times when we couldn’t understand what was going on in our lives, or why it seemed that God wasn’t answering our prayers.  Here is a lesson about waiting, while wanting, to help us see that grace is always there waiting for us with open arms.

Happy Raeding!

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own and a favorable review was not required.     

Book Review: It's Good to be Queen by Liz Curtis Higgs

If you’ve read this blog very many times, you’ll know that I rarely post negative reviews.  Just because I don’t like a book, doesn’t mean you won’t like it.  I know that authors put a lot of work into writing a book, and I never want to take away from their efforts.  However, sometimes it does fall on me to write a review for a book that I just didn’t care for, and one of those times is now.

I have read several Liz Curtis Higgs books in the past, and I have always really liked them.  She is not an author that I read on a regular basis, and I had never read any of her non-fiction books before.  During my daily Bible reading earlier this year, I found myself curious about the Queen of Sheba who came to visit Solomon to test his wisdom.  When I saw It’s Good to be Queen offered for review I was excited to give it a try.  I was disappointed almost from the beginning.  Instead of offering facts about the queen (who is referred to simply as Sheba) the book is full of suppositions about what may have happened, what could have been said or what Sheba probably did.  I found this annoying.  I understand that it would be extremely difficult to know exactly what took place so many years ago, with no real documentation about the events except what is written in the Bible, but why choose to write a book about a subject you don’t know much about?

My second beef with this book is that very little of it seems to be original to Ms. Higgs.  It is full of footnotes, and quotes from other authors.  I know that a lot of nonfiction is written this way, but in this case it just seemed like an overload of previously published information.  I would have preferred to read more of her thoughts and opinions than those of others.  I also didn’t care for the way that the author tries to connect my life with that of the Queen of Sheba.  As in, I can be a better person if I can learn to live and behave like her.  That’s a hard thing to do, since I really don’t know anything about her life. 

My last issue with this book is a pretty common one to me.  I am a firm believer in the King James Bible.  It is the only one I read, and the one I follow and believe.  I realize that not everyone feels this way, and even though I (obviously) believe they are in error, I am not offended if authors choose to use a different version in their writings.  I do generally skip over such passages while reading.  However, my issue comes when an author quotes multiple versions in one book.  Contexts and meanings change from version to version, so I believe that a person should just choose one.  You can’t just search around until you find the one that fits what you what it to say.  We should alter what we believe to fit the Bible, and not the other way around.      

These reason for not enjoying this book may seem petty and nitpicking to you, but they were enough to me that I gave up reading this book after about three chapters.  I think I would have enjoyed a book like this more if it was written as a novel in fiction form.  As I’ve said before, if you think this is a book you’d enjoy, please don’t hesitate to read it because of what I’ve said here.  You may totally disagree with my opinion and really enjoy it.  If you do, I’d love to hear from you!  Leave me a comment to let me know what you think!

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book through the Blogging for Books program in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own, and a favorable review was not required.

Book Review: Girl in the Song by Chrissy Cymbala Toledo

I don’t often use the word “powerful” when I describe a book, and I very rarely say that you need to read one.  But Girl in the Song by Chrissy Cymbala Toledo falls into both of these categories.  In case you don’t know who she is, (I didn’t before I read this book) let me fill you in quickly.  Her dad is the founder and pastor of the Brooklyn Tabernacle, and her mother is the Grammy Award-winning director of the Brooklyn Tabernacle choir.  Chrissy was raised in a home filled with love, but surrounded by the brutality and heartbreak of the streets.  When she became a teenager, she made some very bad choices that lead her down a terrible path.  Her wrong, misguided decisions eventually led to estrangement from her family and sleeping on people’s couches.  But God miraculously touched her heart, and brought her home again to her family, and gave her a life she could never have imagined.

This book really hit home for me.  I’ve had personal experience with family members and friends who have shunned all that they’ve been taught, including the love and safety of home, to find, “what they really wanted.”  This book is a great eye-opener to the thought processes that can lead down a road of sadness and regret.  Chrissy’s rebellion stemmed from situations that happened to people around her when she was just a child that she didn’t fully understand.  It was compounded by listening to music that portrayed the perfect woman as one that was so beautiful and perfect that men desired her.  As Chrissy worked harder and harder to become like the “girl in the song” she moved further and further away from her Christian upbringing and family values. 

I think this book is important for parents of young girls to read, to really see the things that can influence them to go the wrong way.  Admittedly, not everyone’s story is as drastic as Chrissy’s.  Not every teenager who listens to non-Christian music will end up lying to their parents, stealing and getting thrown out of Bible college, but these things can happen and parents need to be aware of them.  It’s important to see how easily girls can be influenced by things around them, even if they don’t show it. 

This book is actually marketed towards girls, and I believe it is important for teenagers, and even some girls who are younger, to read this book.  The events in this book take place over a span of about ten years, and it’s very painful to see the destruction that Chrissy’s lies and terrible choices caused.  But since the book doesn’t take very long to read, you can see it all in a short span of time.  Being able to see them this way is important.  It can really show young girls how their lives can be impacted by choosing the wrong friends and the wrong guy and how these decisions can destroy a life. Chrissy’s ministry to reach out to girls (and women) who feel the pressure to be perfect is admirable.  I hope that through this book she can reach out to those who need to be rescued from bad situations. 

So, I’m telling you again, you need to read this book.  Even if you don’t fall into the category of parent, or teenager, this book is a powerful testament to the grace of God, and the power of prayer.     


Happy Reading,
Lyndsie


I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for this review. 

Book Review: Spiritual Refreshment for Women: Morning and Evening

 It seems that as women our lives get busier every day, and the world is full of things that bring us discouragement and frustration.  While Spiritual Refreshment for Women should not take the place of our daily Bible reading, it can offer just what it says.  It offers just a brief moment of spiritual refreshment, like a drink of cold water on a hot day.  The entries are very short--mostly just a verse and a few sentences--but they are the perfect length to give you just a little something to dwell on throughout the day or night.

The entries are separated by days, and not dates, so that you can begin on any day of the year with day one.  It has two verses for each day, one for the morning and one for evening, so that you can dwell on the one while you go about your daily tasks, and the other as you fall asleep at night.  If you feel the need for a little extra encouragement, go ahead and read a few pages ahead!

This book has beautiful formatting and the pages are beautifully designed, so it would make a great gift for a mother, grandmother or anyone that you feel could use some extra refreshment! (And really, who doesn't need a little more of God's Word?)

If you have read very many of my blog posts, you know that I am KJV only, so my only issue with this book comes from the fact that it uses many different versions of the Bible.  I recommend that you keep your Bible close at hand, so that you can always check the verses for accuracy as you read.  But overall, I was very pleased with this book, and plan to buy a copy for myself when it is released.

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I received an advance copy of this book through NetGalley.  All opinions are my own and a favorable review was not required.  Look for your copy of Spiritual Refreshment for Women: Morning and Evening at your favorite Christian bookseller on or around August 1.

Book Review: I'm Happy for You (Sort Of...Not Really) by Kay Wills Wyma

I don’t read a lot of books that I consider “life-changing” but I can honestly say that I’m Happy For You (Sort Of…Not Really) is life-changing for me.  Many times I sit back and look at my life and I’m so grateful for the wonderful things I have.  I have an amazing husband, a wonderful son, a beautiful house, a loving family, and too many more blessings to count.  But, at other times, I catch myself looking at the lives of those around me, who seemingly have things that are better than mine, or a life that is easier than mine, or (and this is a hard one for me) a child that is better behaved than mine.  It is so easy to get our minds off of the many blessings God has given to us, and wish for what someone else has.  The rise of social media in our day makes this attitude of discontent and covetousness all the more real.  We spend most of our free time, and even time that isn’t free, looking at Facebook,  Instagram or Pinterest and seeing little glimpses of other people’s lives that make them look so much more appealing than our own. 

I have been aware of this issue in my life for a while now, but wasn’t sure how to address it and change it.  It is hard for me to even admit it, or address it for what it is…jealousy, plain and simple.  Kay Wills Wyma pulls no punches in this book, and gives concrete, sometimes amusing and often painful examples of her life.  As she writes about the doubts that assail her as a parent when other parents talk about their children’s achievements, I can relate.  I can relate to that feeling of wishing that my house was as nice as someone else’s, or that my husband did something sweetly romantic for me like a friend’s husband did for her.  So, what is the answer?  How can we keep this green-eyed monster from coming into our lives and stealing our joy and contentment?  How can we learn to say along with the Apostle Paul, “For I have learned in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content?”  Ms. Wyma presents solid advice for learning to be content with what we have, and genuinely learning to be happy for others when they succeed or acquire.  When we truly address our issues with jealousy and pride, only then can we learn the fundamentals of peace, joy and contentment.

I cannot stress enough how great this book is.  I not only enjoyed reading it, I have tried to put some of the lessons it teaches into practice.  I recommend this book to anyone, especially those who are on social media (which is basically everyone, right?).  If you’re tired of living in a world where less than, better than is tantamount, read this book.  If you’re tired of looking around and wishing for things you don’t have, read this book.    If you truly want to feel happy for others who may have more things, or better things than you, read this book.  It will truly change your life, or at least your viewpoint of it.   

 

 

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

 

I received a copy of this book through the Blogging for Books program in exchange for this review.   

Book Review: The One by Ryan and Amanda Leak

I want to say first in my defense that I thought this book was advice about how to have a happy marriage.  I wasn’t until I received it and started reading that I realized it was really about being single and preparing for marriage.  Ryan and Amanda Leak’s story about how they got engaged and married on the same day is really a sweet story, but it’s only a very small part of this book.  They proceed to tell you how you can have a great marriage like theirs, beginning by living it up while you’re single.  The blurb on the back of this book says,” If you’re looking for average, go ahead and put down this book. No hard feelings.”  Throughout the book they give what they consider to be great advice about how to make yourself into the best person you can be for your future spouse.  This includes making a list of the traits you want in a spouse, and then working to make sure you have those qualities yourself.  This in itself is not necessarily a bad thing, but this book becomes annoying very quickly when Ryan and Amanda indicate that their love story is amazing, and if yours doesn’t match theirs, it’s ordinary.  I take offense to this.  The Leak’s dated for five years before they got engaged and married, and apparently broke up several times.  This included one period when they broke up because Amanda’s mother hated Ryan.  I think when you tell young people that their love story needs to go a certain way, or it isn’t amazing, you’re setting them up for heartache in the future.  Everyone’s love story is different, and each one is beautiful and amazing in its own way.  Comparing yours to someone else’s can lead to disappointment and discontentment in your life and relationship.  This is a book I would not recommend to anyone, especially not to  someone who is searching for a spouse.

Lyndsie

I received a free copy of this book through the Blogging for Books program in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own, and a favorable review was not required. 

Book Review: Sand in My Sandwich by Sarah Parshall Perry

Since I became an adult (you know, about a year and a half ago) I've tried to broaden my reading horizons a little.  While fiction will always be my favorite, I have found several non-fiction books that I have enjoyed.  I can't say that I've ever truly read a non-fiction book, with the exception of Unbroken, that fell into the "unable to put down" category--until I read Sand in My Sandwich and Other Motherhood Messes I'm Learning to Love by Sarah Parshall Perry.  Reading this book is literally like sitting down and having a heart-to-heart with a mom who has struggles, but is trying to make the best out of them.  She tells it like it is. 

I laughed and I cried while I read this book.  Sarah tells about her early life, and how she became an anxious, worrying control-freak.  But she also tells about the circumstances that God has brought into her life and continues to bring into her life through her own illness and her sons' disabilities.  She shows  how His grace is always sufficient for even Type A mothers who  are at their wits' end facing things they just can't control any more.  Sarah has three children, two of which have forms of autism.  Even though most days are a struggle, she faces it all with courage and humor. 

Sand in My Sandwich is an encouragement for all moms, and not just those with kids on the autism spectrum.  Because the truth is, that while all of our kids may not gag and throw up when they see a naked foot, or use curse words in their Christian school, they will all do things that upset and embarrass us.  Even if you have a typical child, they will suffer and they will have pain and problems at some time in their life.  After reading about the Perry's struggles, I feel like I can face my everyday problems with a bit more grace.  I also learned that I maybe shouldn't be quite so judgmental towards the family at the next table with children who just won't sit and behave.  Maybe they aren't suffering from lack of discipline, but have other issues that may not be evident on the surface.  Sarah shows that God can turn even less-than-perfect circumstances into a beautiful and wonderful life if we learn to look at them through His eyes. 

If you are a mom who has ever thrown her hands up and wondered if you can make it through the rest of this day, you should read this.  If you have a child with learning or developmental disabilities, you should read this.  If you're a parent who has no idea what I'm talking about, you should read this.  Trust me, you'll understand soon.

Happy Reading...and parenting!

Lyndsie

I received a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for my review.  All opinions are my own. 

Book Review: Whatever the Cost by David and Jason Benham

Somehow I feel like there was a lot of hype about this book that I somehow missed.  I saw it in my Instagram feed one day with the hashtag "WhateverTheCost" so I decided to look it up.  It was available for review, and the story intrigued me, so I decided to give it a try.  I found it to be a little disappointing, but not for reasons you may think.  I had never heard of the Benham brothers before, but their names have been in the media before, so you may have. 

These twin boys were a little on the wild side when they were younger, but had parents who taught them to use their energy and develop their characters for Christ.  They were saved at an early age, and both went on to play major league baseball, but felt that God had other plans for them and walked away.  After a few stops and starts along the way they became realtors, and began flipping houses.  They were offered a show on HGTV where they taught families how to flip.  Their show was protested by GLAAD due to their religious beliefs, and HGTV pulled it before it ever aired.  The brothers remained positive, and faithful to God through all the circumstances.

This story is told in first person plural tense.  It's a little strange to read something written that way, with "we" instead of "I," but it mostly works in this book.  It's really like you're sitting down with them as they tell you what happened, including little comments where the brothers poke fun at each other.  There are times when they break off to tell their story individually, but that's rare since they seem to have spent nearly their whole lives doing the same things.  This method of writing wasn't as annoying as I thought it would be and actually added to the story. 

What I did not like about this book was the brothers' tendency to use multiple Bible versions.  I know that their is only one accurate translation of the Bible (I only use the King James Bible), but since I know others don't feel the same, I'm not here to preach that.  I just disliked the fact that they seemed to just choose the version that best fit what they wanted to say, and went with it.  I would have liked to see some consistency at least.  I guess it's because I'm a woman that I wish they had included more about their personal lives.  Suddenly they were married, and suddenly they had nine kids between them.  That brings me to the main reason I was disappointed in this book.  I think it's mostly a book for guys.  It could be subtitled, "A Man's Guide to Serving God in Business."  That's definitely not a bad thing, and their story is surely inspirational and encouraging to anyone who wants to live for God in these troubled times.  I thought their practices and beliefs were pretty sound, even if they were off-kilter a little in some of their doctrines.  The book does have some great quotes that I highlighted to reference later.  I would recommend this book to men and boys who are looking for encouragement in serving the Lord, but I just didn't really find much in it to apply to me.  Overall, though, not a bad read.

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I was given an advance e-galley of this book by the publisher in exchange for my review.  All opinions are my own and a favorable review was not required.  Whatever the Cost is on sale now.

Book Review:Make Up by Michelle Phan

How many people do you know who have turned their passion/hobby into a career?  Michelle Phan is one famous example of someone who started out just doing something she loved, and ended up with a great career that makes her happy.  In today's technology driven world, it's becoming more and more possible to do this.  In case you don't know, Michelle has a YouTube channel where she demonstrates makeup tricks and tips.  From her humble beginnings with just a camera and computer, she has risen to international fame.  Her resume now includes a stint as a Lancôme spokesperson, a makeup artist, founder of a makeup brand and more.  I must admit that I've never watched any of Michelle's videos on YouTube, but I admire anyone who can turn their passion into a business.  That is the main reason I got this book.  I figured if I learned some new makeup and fashion tips along the way, it was a bonus.

This book disappointed on nearly every level.  I probably should have guessed from the cover graphic and font that it was written for younger people.  It's full of little doodles in the margins and pictures of Michelle with different makeup, hairstyles (and colors) and outfits.  While this might be helpful to someone who's young and just looking for a career or a personal style, it was too basic for me.  The makeup, hair, nail and style tips were pretty irrelevant to someone who is mature.  I did find it interesting to read about Michelle's journey to creating her brand and establishing her business, but that's about all I got from this book.  I'm actually a little surprised that I finished it, but I guess I kept hoping it would get better.

While I was very disappointed in Make Up I have a young friend who is about to graduate high school and will probably be looking for a job.  I'm going to give this book to her.  I think she might find some good tips about resumes and interviews here.  She's already pretty stylish though, so I doubt the fashion and makeup tips will help her much. 

Bottom Line: If you're older than about 21, this book probably isn't for you.

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I was given a copy of this book through the Blogging for Books program.  A favorable review was not required and all opinions are my own.

Book Review: Unplanned by Abby Johnson

I've always considered myself to be pro-life, but how much had I really thought about what happens to thousands of babies who are murdered in the United States every year?  I wept as I read Abby's story, not so much because of what happened to Abby, but because of the things that go on in abortion clinics in the name of "women's choice."  I actually found myself feeling a little frustrated that Abby really believed she was doing the right thing and really trying to end abortion.  I don't understand how she could feel she was doing what was right when her parents, husband and even the members of her church disagreed with her career choice, and she felt the need to hide what she did from many of her friends.  She even admits that she never felt close to God while she worked at the clinic.  But she continued working there until the day that she took part in an ultrasound-assisted abortion.  After seeing what really happens when a baby is removed from its mothers womb, she knew she could no longer be a part of Planned Parenthood, so she walked away and eventually joined the Coalition for Life.

Since she has been on both sides of the abortion fence, Abby has an understanding of the mindset of each side.  While it does seem that many of the higher-ups in the Planned Parenthood organization are really just looking for more money, that doesn't seem to be that case for all of those who work in the clinics.  Even though I can't see from their point of view, Abby really showed in this book that think what they're doing is right and that they are helping women. 

Abby tells her story with complete transparency and doesn't make excuses for her sins.  When she realized what she had done, she was truly heartbroken and repentant.  I cried along with her in the last chapter when she stood at the fence.  Her book made me realize that there are people out there who are really fighting every day to end abortion.  It's not just a slogan to them, or a sermon they hear on Sunday, but a real, true fight.  Even though I don't agree with all the choices that Abby Johnson made in her life, I truly admire the work she does now. 

If you are pro-choice, reading this book will probably not change your mind.  But if you are already pro-life, or at least leaning that way, this book can't help but touch you.  . 

Happy Reading,

Lyndsie

I was given a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for my review.  All opinions are my own. 

 

Book Review: Living Well Spending Less by Ruth Soukup

Go on Pinterest and search any term relating to budgeting, saving money or couponing and you won't scroll long without finding a pin that leads you to Ruth Soukup and her blog "Living Well Spending Less."  That's where I first heard about her, and I was very excited to be approved to read and review her first book.  Living Well Spending Less wasn't what I expected.  It is not a book that teaches all about budgeting and saving money, although you will find tips about those things.  Nor is it a book that tells you how you can become rich overnight.  The main focus of this book is to show you how being content with the things you have can lead you to a good life right now!  The "12 Secrets to the Good Life," aren't really secrets at all.  They are principles that we all should know and learn to live by.  Ruth shows in this this book that living well is possible, even if you don't always own the newest gadget, the nicest car or the most expensive clothes.  This book isn't filled with preachy, "thou shalt nots," but with stories of the author's own struggles with money and buying things she didn't need.  While not pretty, these stories offer true encouragement that there is hope out there for even the worst 'shopaholic.'  Since reading this book I've noticed just how things are marketed to consumers.  Every new product from cars to shoes is advertised in a way that makes you think, "If I just had that, I'd be really happy."  And it's just not true!  I can say that I, too, have been guilty of buying things, and by the time I get them home, I wonder just why I needed them.    

There are also great chapters in this book about goal setting and planning for the future.  Ms. Soukup gives solid advice about putting off things we want now, to have the things we need later.  She explains how forgoing a few luxuries now (which are usually things we don't even need) can help us to have financial stability in the future.  I loved her advice to sit down and make a list of things you want to do and be and have in the future.  Keep this list close by, and when the temptation to make an impulse purchase arises, look at the list of things you really want, to help avoid spending unnecessarily.  I think that's a pretty genius idea!  I also really enjoyed the chapter about finding your sweet spot and reaching for your dreams.  It was very encouraging to read this from someone who's been there.  And while I obviously don't want to try something new and fail at it, it's nice to hear that failure isn't the end of the world.

This book provides a lot of information about saving money and making plans, and while that may seem overwhelming, nearly every plan that is mentioned can be downloaded from Ruth's website.  I can't even tell you how helpful I found this book to be.  I think it's a great book to read as you go into the new year.  If your resolutions include saving money, spending less or even reaching for some great dream that seems impossible, you should read this book.  Even if you don't want to implement all of the changes, you will find these words helpful and encouraging. 

Here's to less spending and more saving in the new year!

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie 

I was given an advance copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.  Look for a copy of Living Well Spending Less on or around December 30, 2014.

Book Review: The Cure for the "Perfect" Life by Kathi Lipp and Cheri Gregory

Do you ever find yourself looking at women around you and thinking how much more successful they are than you?  How much more organized?  Do you struggle to always get things "just right" and then end up disappointed with yourself, or those around you?  Do you start projects with the best of intentions, and then give up when they don't turn out like you thought?  Do you see other women on social media who seem to have it all together, and wonder how they manage to do it all, and seemingly have it all?  If you answered yes to any of these questions (or all of them in my case) this book is for you!  I don't make this recommendation lightly.  I really learned so much about myself, my personality and my reactions and responses to situations while reading this.  I truly believe that if I take to heart what I read here and use the methods presented, I can change my life.  Okay, life-changing might be a bit drastic, but I can change the way I view my life and the way I react when things just don't go my way.  And maybe that is life-changing enough.

This book is full of quizzes and tests to evaluate your life.  The first one will tell you if you are a victim of "Try Harder Living."  Ms. Lipp and Ms. Gregory give solid examples of how trying harder only makes things worse, and then we fall victim to the four bullies of THL: perfectionism, people-pleasing, performancism and procrastination.  The harder we try and the more we fail, the more discouraged we become until we feel that we just aren't good enough.  That's where "Braver Living" comes in.  

First, the authors help us to figure out exactly what personality type we are.  Mine was analytic, and let me tell you that I was surprised at how accurate the description of my personality was.  Sometimes while reading, I literally had to close the book in embarrassment or shame when I realized, "I have responded like that."  But the purpose of this book is not to make us feel guilty, but to help us overcome our shortcomings, and live bravely.  There are solid suggestions that help us to realize that we don't have to be stuck reacting in a certain way because of our personality.  I love that there are stories here from real women, who, when faced with certain situations, reacted wrongly.  But they realized their mistakes, and are working to fix them.  I can relate!  There are many examples that say:  When _____ happens, my personality type wants to ______, but I know with God's help, and through Braver Living I can______, instead.  

This book came to me at a crucial time in my life.  I'm trying to make some personal changes, and it's really scary.  These authors have really helped me to understand that it's worth it to take the risk to be what I want.  Like everyone who wants to try something new, I'm worried about what others will think and say about me.   Ms. Gregory and Ms. Lipp point out that those who say negative things about us when we try something new, are those who are still trying harder and not living braver.  I'm going to choose to live braver.  If I fail, at least I know I tried!

I cannot recommend this book enough.  I think it's a great book to read in the new year.  Work through it slowly, and make the changes necessary to give up your "perfect" life and your unrealistic expectations of yourself and those around you.  Realize that you are enough, just like you are!  I do want to say, though, that I think you need the hard copy of this book instead of the digital.  You will want to use a pen or pencil to fill in the quizzes, and I think you'll find that you need a highlighter, too.  This is a book for every woman, who wants to stop trying harder, and start living braver!  

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I was given a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.  Look for your copy at your favorite bookseller. 

Book Review: Becoming Myself by Stasi Eldredge

Stasi Eldredge definitely has a gift for speaking to women, and really helping them to understand themselves, and, maybe, feel a little bit better about their lives.  This book started out really strong, and brought tears to my eyes more than once.  However, I only made it about halfway through before I got bogged down a little and had to give it up.  Maybe I shouldn't be surprised, since I suffered the same fate while reading Captivating,  which is a similar book written by Stasi and her husband John.  While I felt that the messages contained in both books were really good, they just seemed to me to become repetitive. After struggling for a while, I finally just gave it up.  Maybe I was just trying to read too many books at one time, and one had to fall by the wayside.  (It wouldn't be the first time.)  I wouldn't tell you not to read this, because it may be something that you will enjoy, but it just wasn't for me. 

Happy Reading!

Lyndsie

I was given a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for my review.  All opinions are my own.  

Book Review: Happy Handmade Home by Elsie Larson and Emma Chapman

I only got this book in the mail a couple days ago, and let me tell you, I devoured it!  It was absolutely wonderful.  My copy is now full of sticky tabs marking projects I want to try, or tips to remember.  These two sisters hit the nail on the head for me with this one.  I wasn't really sure what to expect, since I could tell from the cover that their decorating styles are very different from mine.  I didn't know if there would be any projects here that would interest me.  And while most of the stuff you'll find here is decidedly modern, it can be adapted to fit nearly any décor.  The book is broken down into sections for Living Rooms, Kitchens, Dining Rooms, Bedrooms, Studio Spaces, Outdoor Spaces, Playrooms and Small Spaces.  Each section contains several projects, plus tips and ideas to maximize space and organization, and also how to make rooms your own.  While not every person will like every project, I think everyone can find something here.  Some of my favorites that I hope to try are:  yarn throw pillows, colorful accent art, custom serving dishes, scented candles and a playtime blanket--and those are just a few of the things I marked!  None of the steps for any of the projects are complicated, and I didn't see anything that I couldn't buy at my local Hobby Lobby or Lowe's.  I also loved the "9 Ways" pages where the sisters tell you how to personalize everything from your morning coffee cup, to your throw pillows, to a craft basket.  I will certainly be referring to this book often, and I think I'll hop on over to their blog, A Beautiful Mess and becoming an email subscriber!  Anyone who is looking to personalize and update their home décor without breaking the bank, and isn't afraid of a little craftiness should read this one.  I can almost guarantee you'll find something for you here!

Happy Reading (and crafty decorating!)

Lyndsie

I was given a copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.

Book Review: The Kennedy Wives by Amber Hunt and David Batcher

Since I'm young enough that I missed out on the Kennedy craze of the sixties and seventies, and even the second mini-craze of the late nineties, I was very excited to have an opportunity to read The Kennedy Wives: Triumph and Tragedy in American's Most Public Family.  I honestly found the book to be fascinating--for multiple reasons. 

First, I'll tell you what I thought about the writing.  This book is broken into five parts, each one telling the tale of one of the women who married a famous Kennedy.  The books begins with Rose, the Kennedy matriarch, and follows with Ethel, Jackie, Joan and Vickie.  Before reading this book, I only knew the name of one of these women--Jacqueline Kennedy, of course.  The first thing you should know about The Kennedy Wives is that it is absolutely a book about the women and not their famous husbands and/or sons.  The stories of philandering, politics, campaigns, births, miscarriages, money and assassinations are only told as how they affected each woman.  Obviously the Kennedy men play great roles in the stories, but these are the stories of the wives and how they reacted and responded to their husbands' time in the spotlight, both good and bad.  The second thing you should understand is that even though this book could very easily be repetitive, it is not.  Each woman's story is her own.  Even though Rose, Ethel, Jackie and Joan were all affected by and involved in John F. Kennedy's assassination, the story of it is only told once, in Jackie's part of the book.  Even though it is mentioned in each woman's story, (except Vickie) it is only used to describe each woman's reaction to the event.  I was very impressed with the writers' ability to separate each woman into her own story.  Another thing I admired about these authors' was how they just wrote what happened.  People seem to have an idea that the Kennedys lived some kind of magical "Camelot" lifestyle, but Ms. Hunt and Mr. Bratcher have shattered that illusion in this book.  Bu they did it with respect and dignity by simply saying, "They wanted you to believe it was all perfect, but this is how it really was..."

My disappointment in this book lies not with the authors, nor the writing, but with the characters themselves.  I was appalled to read how they were forced to sit by while their husbands' had multiple, public affairs, and they were unable to do anything about it because the Kennedys were rich and powerful.  I honestly could not imagine being treated that way by my husband.  Although they weren't perfect, these were (and some still are) amazing women, but each of their husbands took for granted what they had. 

All in all The Kennedy Wives  is a great book.  I really learned a lot while reading it, and found myself unable to put it down.  It's not very often I can say that about a historical account.  I would recommend this book to those who remember the events that happened in the sixties and seventies, but also to those who, like me, really have no idea who things were then.  I think this will be a real eye-opener to both groups. 

Happy Reading,

Lyndsie

I was given an advance copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for my review.  All opinions are my own.  Look for this book on sale on or around December 2, 2014.

Book Review: Dancing for the Devil by Anny Donewald

Have you ever wondered just what can bring a girl to the place that she would strip off her clothes and dance in front of men for money?  In this explosive memoir, Anny Donewald chronicles her journey from all-American girl, to sinful stripper, to child of God.

The first half of Dancing for the Devil was a real eye-opener for me.  Looking through Anny's eyes, I was in some ways able to see why she made the choices that she did.  She really shows how girls are caught up and deceived by the devil and their own minds into doing things they once thought undoable.  She describes her own sexual abuse as a child at the hands of a college basketball player.  She shows how she felt so unworthy of God's love and grace--or the love and forgiveness of her family.  Her parents offered her many avenues of escape, but she turned down every one to return to her life of "dancing for the devil."  She fell further and further into a life of dancing, sex, alcohol and drugs.  During her second pregnancy God reached out His love to Anny Donewald and saved her from her wicked life.  She began to attend church, read her Bible and understand His forgiveness.

The part of Anny's book where she describes her life after her salvation is the part where I began to have issues.  I take great offense to her views of the church of being unloving and legalistic because they do things like protest strip clubs in their towns.  I cannot believe that God would ever call a Christian person to go into a strip club, and view the wickedness that goes on there, even if they felt that they were doing it to win strippers to Him.  Does God love strippers?  Of course.  But He hates their sin.  We cannot forget that even though they have many times been deceived, abused and forced into the XXX industry, their lifestyle is still wicked and sinful.  There is no such thing as a Christian stripper.  When God saves someone, He calls them out of their sin, and they will be ashamed of it.  Singing gospel songs on a stage in a strip club while wearing a G-string doesn't make a person saved.  I believe that it is a great work to go and try to win these girls to Jesus, but not by stooping to their level.  Yes, they need to hear that Jesus loves them, but they also need to hear that He will not accept their sin.   

Dancing for the Devil is a powerful story.  It is a real example of the grace of God in action.  It is amazing to me to see how God changed Anny's life.  It is amazing to me that she is reaching out to others who have fallen into the same sin that held  her captive.  Even though I don't agree with her methods, I applaud Anny Donewald's efforts to reach those who have been largely forgotten with the gospel.  Dancing for the Devil really opened my eyes to the ways that young women are drawn into this lifestyle.  While reading this book I felt a true compassion for those who believe there is no way out of the life they have chosen, no escape from the mistakes of their past.  I truly hope that Anny's ministry, Eve's Angels, will be able to reach some of them with the love and grace of God.  Anny Donewald and I may not be on the same page spiritually, but I'm glad I read her testimony.  It will remind me to be not so quick to judge in the future. 

Happy Reading,

Lyndsie

I was given an advance copy of this book by the publisher in exchange for this review.  All opinions are my own.